Grayality is Out Now

Love Knows No Gender

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Carey PW, LGBTQ+ Romance Author

Words from the Soul Connect Us

We are all told, “live your life to the fullest;" I am here to do just that. Carey PW, LGBTQ+ Author serves as a vessel to project my passions, and clue in my loyal readers as to what inspires me in this crazy world. So, sit back, relax, and read on.

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I am not immoral

Morality refers to people’s principles concerning right or wrong behavior. Morality is highly subjective. Diverse cultures, nations,...

When I Fail

One of my favorite qualities is my empathy. I am not afraid to approach the emotions of other people. In fact, I embrace it. There is...

I Want to Be a Ken Doll

I have debated about writing about this topic because it is a sensitive issue for many transgender men, including myself. At the same...

The toxic nature of gatekeeping

I came across the notion of gatekeeping early in my teen years. I recall the term posers floating around my high school campus even...

A Letter to Kidney Transplant Recipient

What do you write to a person who received your kidney? I donated a kidney on December 6, 2021. I can’t recall exactly when the idea came...

A Discouraged Day after Kidney Donation

Once upon a time, there was Phil and Bill. Two kidneys working together in harmony To filter my blood and prevent me from becoming ill....

Am I Ready to Die?

On December 6, I will be donating a kidney to a stranger. I have wanted to do this for years now because I am young and in strong...

Daddy's Not Here to Teach Me

My dad died in 2010 from colon cancer. I have coped with that loss well; nevertheless, even since I started transitioning three years...

When People Rip Down My Pride Flags

Driving around any neighborhood, I can always see many flags in various people’s yards: the American flag, Trump flags, Black Lives...

My Asexuality

My sexuality has confused me for a great deal of my life. I felt interested in sex prior to experiencing it because it seemed like such a...

Emotions Are Not the Enemy

My relationship with my emotions has been tricky. As a child, I possessed little to no control over my emotions. My parents told me...

The Nonbinary Carey

The nonbinary umbrella encompasses a plethora of gender identities that do not conform to the gender binary. It is a quite convoluted...

Why Public Restrooms Suck (To Me)

I know that I am not the only transgender person who experiences struggles with public restrooms; after all, the notorious bathroom bills...

Why I Started this Blog

I can’t say that I pictured myself as a blogger. I considered it at various points in my life. As a marathon runner, I envisioned...


LGBTQIA+ and Allies Encounter

Center for Studies of the Person

This group meets every other Monday from 4PM to 5:30PM PST and is focused on providing a supportive environment for discussing various LGBTQIA+ issues or experiences, as well as fostering community with one another. We also hope that allies, family, and loved ones join our encounter group, for we want this group to be a safe space for all to connect.



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